Do It If You Can
Do It If You Can
by Jude LaClaire
August 27, 2014
Maya Angelou, author, artist, teacher, activist and human being, died May 28, 2014, at the age of eighty-six. She inspired
me over forty years ago when I read her first book, I Know Why The Cage Bird Sings. She continued to inspire us in so many
ways in the past four decades. She was scheduled to speak in Kansas City this fall; sadly, we did not get to share her with
the world one more time.
In one of her last interviews with Oprah she was saying how her aging process was just getting better; and when asked
about being 85, she responded, Do it if you can.
Age can be a relative thing, and some say it is just a number. Some days my body and mind would not agree with that.
As the body ages and some mental processes become more challenging, the doing it can be a bit harder. Two of the times in
our lives that we are more at risk for depression are adolescence and over age 65. Both are times of great change and development.
The later stage of development is characterized by despair. This can be triggered by the increasing loss of physical
abilities and autonomy, peers and spouses dying, a need to re-find purpose, meaning and a sense of place. If a person has
not developed skills of resiliency, how to deal with change, a sense of identity that goes beyond the mid-life roles or a
belief system that helps them navigate this turbulent time, he or she is going to feel that despair keenly. This is the challenge.
One life skill that has been proven to consistently improve our physical, emotional and spiritual well-being is the
habit of gratitude. Research shows that people who practice gratitude daily experience:
Stronger immune systems and lower blood pressure
Higher levels of positive emotions
More joy, optimism, and happiness
Acting with more generosity and compassion
Feeling less lonely and isolated
How can you develop this attitude of gratitude? One woman was given the advice to write one thing each evening she was
grateful for. She then added taking one picture each day of something she appreciated. Soon she was taking many pictures and
writing many things. She was also feeling much better.
A good way to start the day is to write five to ten things you are grateful for. Keeping a gratitude journal can make a big
difference in boosting your mental and physical health. Make a habit of sending one thank you a month. Remembering the hard
times of your life is a good way to appreciate your present circumstances.
Take time to be aware of the sensory information in your environment. Observe and take in the beautiful sky, the smiling face,
the good smell of fresh food and the comforting touch. You get the idea.
How often do you thank someone with a look, a smile, encouraging words? Take a little more time with that process so you and
the recipient can really feel it. Receive the appreciation and compliments given to you.
At any stage of life, but especially as we age, it is important to review, refresh and keep learning new ways to live healthily.
As Maya Angelou so wisely counsels us, My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some
passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.
Trauma Matters: The Move Toward Trauma Informed Care
Trauma Matters: The Move Toward Trauma Informed Care
by Sharon McGloin
August 7, 2014
Between 1995-1997, Kaiser Permanente and the Center for Disease Control and Prevention conducted one of the largest investigations
into the connections between child maltreatment and later life health and wellbeing. Known as the ACE (Adverse Childhood Experience)
Study, more than 17,000 individuals chose to provide detailed information about their childhood experience of abuse, neglect
and family dysfunction. The ACE Study found that adverse childhood experiences correlated with major risk factors and poor
quality of life with increased risk factors for diseases that were leading causes of death in the United States. It is critical
to understand how some of the worst health and social problems arose as a consequence of adverse childhood experiences.
As a result of this study, the interest in the effects of trauma on the brain has become a topic of discussion in the field
of mental health. What do I mean by trauma? According to Trauma MattersKC, Trauma is the emotional impact as a result of environmental
events and stressors and may include violence, war, loss and natural disasters, physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse.
The result of trauma can include injury, feelings of hopelessness and helplessness, difficulty coping with everyday tasks,
stress, troubled relationships and increased health concerns and issues with mental health. Everyone has experienced trauma
in their lives. The important part is how we learn to deal with these events from a trauma informed perspective.
Trauma Informed Care is an organizational structure and treatment framework that involves understanding, recognizing,
and responding to the effects of all types of trauma. Becoming trauma informed means recognizing that people often have many
different types of trauma in their lives. People who have been traumatized need support and understanding from those around
them. Changing the language from, What is wrong with you? to What happened to you? is a good starting point in becoming trauma
informed. As an organization begins to adopt trauma sensitive practices, these practices are within the entire organization.
It is not just about how we treat the clients that are being served but how we treat each other everyday. When these practices
become embedded into the culture of an organization, folks feel safe. Clients and staff participate in their care and treatment.
Folks are supported for disclosure and support is offered that leads to resilience and recovery.
There are various models of trauma informed care available. One model that I am most familiar with is called Sanctuary.
The Sanctuary Model represents a theory-based, trauma-informed, evidence-supported, whole culture approach that has a clear
and structured methodology for creating or changing an organizational culture. The model provides a context from which healing
from psychological and social traumatic experiences can occur. The model is designed to facilitate the development of structures,
processes and behaviors on the part of staff, clients and the community that can counteract the biological, affective, cognitive,
social and existential wounds suffered by the victims of traumatic experience and extended exposure to adversity. (Sanctuaryweb.com)
The curriculum is based on the acronym SELF-Safety, Emotional Management, Loss and Future. These represent four areas of recovery
that provide a framework for individuals and organizations. Both the clients that are served as well as the organization itself
can become stressed as a result of the effects of trauma. SELF is a guide that will assist with clients and staff working
through the effects of trauma both from an individual perspective as well as an organizational perspective.
What can you do to promote trauma informed care practices within the community and your organization?
Begin by creating a common language and establishing best practices within the organization.
Provide information on the causes and consequences of trauma.
Promote education, resources and advocacy for prevention and intervention services.
Promote healing and increase awareness of issues facing those who have been traumatized.
Change your language and ask, What happened to you?
Manifesting a Dream
Manifesting a Dream
by Jill Dutton
June 1, 2010
He tapped into the Oneness of the Universe.
Without consciously knowing what he was doing, Michael Taylor created a vision, held it in his mind and manifested the unthinkable.
In high school, Mike dreamed of playing football at the highest level; yet, he was far from what a coach looks for in a stellar
player. He was undersized, struggled academically and didnt begin playing football until the 10th grade. His background didnt
lend itself to an athletic career, either. Mikes mother raised four boys as a single mother in a socially and economically
deprived part of Detroit, known as little Vietnam, which frequently has the highest violent crime rate in the country.
Regardless of his background, the odds against him and even his own fears, Mike held a vision to play football. He used the
law of attraction to plant the seed of his desire. He held this seed and nurtured it daily to reach his goal. And he did it
without realizing exactly what he was doing.
It started one Saturday afternoon by fate. When Mike was 12, he went to his room and Maxwell Maltzs book, Psycho-Cybernetics,
was lying on the floor. No one knows where the book came from, but Mike picked it up and sat down to read. When he opened
the book it was Noon and when he closed the book it was dark. Mike says of this event, It was like invisible arms came out
and pulled me into the book. The author was an American cosmetic surgeon with a method to improve self-image. Maltz said he
noticed that even though he fixed peoples faces and looks, they still had a distorted view of themselves as ugly. It was the
self-image that was plaguing the person. It was something inside them, not outside them, which needed to change. This realization
led Mike to understand that through the right image of self, he could achieve any goals.
People frequently ask Mike how he got away from the crime, the drugs and the other negative influences surrounding him. The
power of that book put me in a trance. Like in a hypnotic spell, it allowed me to stay focused on what I wanted, not what
I had, Mike says.
It all started with desire. My conscious mind sent meaning to my subconscious mind the concept of being a football player
and my subconscious mind created the reality through people, circumstances and conditions.
Growing up in Detroit, there wasnt a local sporting program like the YMCA or Little League for inner city kids. So when Mike
started playing football in high school, he says he was, nothing but a tackling dummy. There were a lot of times he wanted
to quit. He lacked the size and the abilities to play. He was frequently ridiculed by his teammates. Rather than accept defeat
and circumstance, he used the power of assumption to create a dream in his mind. And he saw this dream as a present reality.
I could see myself playing the game. My imagination took over. In the midst of the gauntlet of being a tackling dummy and
the adversity of peer pressure, my imagination held the key to solve all of my problems, Mike says.
Mike graduated from high school and lived in his mothers basement while working odd jobs. During those two years, rather than
accept his circumstances, he sat and imagined himself playing football for hours on end. Mike says, For two years, I sat in
the theatre of my mind and imagined myself playing the game. I was completely involved with the feeling of it. I saw myself
in uniform. I saw the crowd, the commentators. I saw myself running out of the tunnel. I saw myself in the limelight, playing
the biggest teams. During those two years, with such intent focus, I began materializing the people and circumstances I needed.
The situations and circumstances started to build. Mike met a man who talked to him about junior college. He took a bus to
three different schools. He walked into coaches offices and said, Im here. I want to play football for your school. One of
the colleges gave him a tryout. During the tryout, he collided with another player and broke the players foot. The other player
told him that by breaking his foot, he ruined his chances for a football career. Incredibly, he offered to help Mike instead.
This guy said, Youre a decent player, but youve got to get better. Ill show you how. I worked out with him for a semester,
Mike remembers. Now not only playing in his mind, Mike began physically working toward his goals. He calls it his Rocky moment.
To build strength and weight, he slept on concrete. He began doing push-ups and sit-ups and ate food anywhere he could. Miraculously,
within two months, Mike grew two inches in height and put on 15 pounds of muscle mass. He bought a one way ticket to Iowa
Falls, Iowa, and told his mother he wasnt coming back.
That was it, the moment of truth. All the other colleges shut their doors on me and I end up at the most prestigious community
college in the country. For the first time in my life, I broke the lineup. I lead that team with 111 tackles and 13 quarterback
sacks and a number two ranking in the country.
Mike was offered scholarships to numerous colleges. Iowa State reached his mother first. Mike says, They came with their black
suits and cases and told my mother that I was a great player with great ability and they wanted to offer me an athletic scholarship.
My mother collapsed on the floor in tears.
Trouble used to find me in high school. Mom once said I was the worst kid to deal with. I was in the bottom third in high
school, yet I graduated from Iowa State.
The climatic highlight of Mikes career came on August 27, 1984, during a University of Missouri homecoming game. Mike was
called on to block a go ahead field goal win. Seizing the moment, Mike blocked the field goal, saving Iowa State from a road
loss with a game-saving 14-14 tie. The Columbia Tribune stated that the block left homecoming fans stunned and silent. Mike
remembers, What a powerful realization of a wish fulfilled. I was the first one in my family and my entire high school class,
to get a college degree.
And thats the power of the law of attraction. Thoughts are powerful; form them with care, intention and desire and like Mike,
you can create the reality of your dreams.
Learn the shocking truth about how success is achieved through Mikes books:Ten Powerful Strategies To Get an Athletic Scholarship
and How to Get your Kid from Little League to Pro. To book Mike Taylor for speeches/appearances, contact him at 913.701.0270
www.mastermindsportsrecruiting.com Facebook: mastermindsportsrecruiting
Jill Dutton is publisher of Evolving Magazine. She has worked as a freelance writer for 20 years. Jill is currently writing
her second book,
The Business of Writing. www.EvolvingMagazine.com
Monday, July 28, 2014
A Healthy Mind is Clear and Calm...by Suzette Scholtes
Mon, July 28, 2014 | link
"I can see clearly now the rain is gone." Remember that tune? As great yogi Sean Corne said, "I was walking
one day and asked myself what am I feeling?" She broke into a smile. She felt a depth of happiness never felt before.
She experienced what we call in yoga a "break through." I equate a solid yoga practice to therapy. That is why my
membership in the National Association of Yoga Therapists is always renewed for its guiding work in the proper use of yoga
for mental, emotional and physical healing. As the father of Yoga, Pantajali writes, "Yoga allows us health and happiness."
I wrote these seven C's years ago as guidelines.
1. CHOOSE. Choice or intent is pivotal to all change and
growth. Use passion! Today I choose to create a day of love and fun and productivity. I choose to be alive in my heart, body,
mind and spirit. When stuck, get quiet, breathe, center and move again to the heart for healing. Love is always a choice.
One cannot feel fear when one feels love.
2. CENTER. Before I leave the sanctuary of my bedroom, I meditate and connect
with God, High Self, Soul and Spirit. Ease flows in the under-current of my day.
3. CREATE. This means we give birth
to the new. Your next breath is a new breath. Your next choice may be a new choice. Your attitude change may be new. I'm
writing a book. I love this project I procrastinated on for too many years.
4. CAUTION. I keep my negative ego in check
watching for covert control issues, blame, and nobilzing the past, arrogance, feeling unworthy, self-pity, not forgiving.
Healers: protect yourself with pranic or light energy or other means you find appealing, such as crystals. Lock your car doors.
Secure your latches. In June, I purchased pepper spray to carry while walking. A snarling black dog raced from behind as my
sister and I walked the lake. It growled and bared its teeth. Streams of pepper spray left it to sputter and cough as we walked
on. Pepper spray turned out to be a serendipitous purchase.
5. CALM. I love how yoga gives us the tool to create composure
with our will. I return to my heart, breathing deep in a "mini" meditation. Why should I give power away to an
aggravating incident or negative conversation? This is a fine tool to use for peace.
6. COMMIT. How I wish to be fully
awake. I look for beauty and find ways to feel grateful every day. It is the core of the laws of attraction.
On my morning walk, along with the geese upon the path, ducks in the pond, I found myself remembering incidents in my life,
that were not so positive. Like a child who holds tight onto the red balloons, I opened my hands to the sky, part of the heart
chakra, and let it go. As we cherish those golden moments shining divine light within, others see it in your eyes. It is indeed
".... a bright, bright wonderful day."
Addictions: A Path to Healing...by Jude LaClaire
Mon, July 28, 2014 | link
From the beginning of our lives we are on a quest for food, sleep and touch. We move on to seek novelty, friendship and
sex. The reward system of the brain is insatiable for good reasons. It keeps us alive as we connect, reproduce and seek new
ways to do things. It has not only helped us survive, but drives us to develop and grow in the process. The downside of this
drive is addiction.
Addictive substances or behaviors mimic natural rewards such as food or sex by activating a
network of brain areas called the 'reward circuitry,' which is responsible for enjoyment. The hook is that the use
of mood-altering substances or behaviors (like gambling, porn) often ‘exceeds expectations.' We might think, "Wow,
this was even better than I thought it would be." When we repeat this experience, we begin re-wiring the brain, strengthening
the synaptic contacts between neurons that encode this experience. With repeated use, combined with the delusion of the addict,
the brain develops a long-term strengthening of the substance/behavior memory circuits. This helps explain why it is so difficult
to stop the addictive behavior.
What predisposes a person to get hooked? We know that genetic vulnerability, environmental
influence and the repeated use of a substance or behavior are conditions that will trigger an addictive habit. As I look at
family genograms the patterns of addiction are easily spotted. Experiences of trauma, loss, mental or physical health problems
and relationship issues can all be triggers for addictions. Experimenting with drugs and alcohol at impressionable ages, along
with some of the factors mentioned, could start a person on the road to addiction.
Once the brain's reward system
is 're-wired' the roller coaster is sliding down hill. Until a person has some sort of awakening, either by hitting
bottom or some experience that jolts them out of their delusional thinking, the addiction will be in charge.
the twelve-step program of AA, the first step is to "admit that we were powerless over alcohol (addictive substance or
behavior) and that our lives had become unmanageable." The second step is to believe "that a Power greater than
ourselves could restore us to sanity." These steps are taken only when some sort of ‘awakening' has occurred.
Bill W. (one of the founders of AA) and Carl Jung, a well-known Swiss psychiatrist, discussed this in the letters they exchanged
in 1961. Carl Jung had told one of his patients (Rowland), who later met Bill W. and who continued to relapse with his drinking,
that he was at the point where he was powerless and needed to have a spiritual experience. He recommended that he search for
this experience. It took Rowland seven more years to find the Oxford Movement, where he immersed himself in helping others
and began his recovery.
Jung's idea that addiction was a longing for wholeness is a portend of the discovery
that it is in the hard-wiring of the reward system of the brain. Some of us get lost in the immediate reward and forget to
keep seeking for the holistic experience. And we want it now! Having the spiritual experience, which may happen slowly over
time, is key to the motivation to ‘re-wire.'
The neurobiology of addiction helps us to understand the
nature of this brain dysregulation and invites us to learn new skills, re-train the brain and be patient with the long-term
nature of this process.
People do better in recovery when they have support and structure. Addiction treatment,
good psychotherapy, groups that use the twelve-step program and family and community support are helpful in this journey.
It is definitely the best, and often most difficult, road to take.
Thursday, July 24, 2014
Farm is Medicine...by Bethany Klug
Thu, July 24, 2014 | link
We’ve all heard the aphorism “food is medicine.”
Daphne Miller, MD however, made a convincing case that “farm is medicine” at the Institute for Functional Medicine
Annual International Conference this past May.
Miller began with
the story of a farmer in the Pacific Northwest who bought land with the intention of farming organically. First he had to
restore the soil that had been conventionally farmed for years. He took the advice of a local university, tested the soil
and purchase minerals and other amendments to replace what was missing. After a few years, this got expensive and his soil
was still depleted. Test and replace just wasn't working.
he researched how nature builds healthy rich soil. It’s a cycle.
grow, animals eat them and after eating, they poop. Worms and soil microorganism compost the poop and dead plants, enriching
the soil. The plant roots take up the soil nutrients, and the cycle begins again. That farmer spread compost on his fields
and the soil tests quickly improved.
A rancher found by
taking advantage of the soil cycle, he no longer needed to treat his beef cattle herds with antibiotics. The animals were
Miller then went on to share the research
on how the soil cycle affects humans. John Reganold at Washington State University has shown that organically farmed soils
host a wider variety of microorganisms than conventionally farmed soils. He also showed that one year after converting from
conventional to organic farming methods, fruit had more antioxidant activity, phenolics and vitamin C. The differences were
statistically significant. More microbial diverse soils yield more nutritious plants.
Carlotta De Fillippo of the University of Florence, Italy, showed that children in areas of rural Africa who consumed
a traditional diet of traditionally raised—read organic—food had completely different stool microorganisms than
children living in Florence, who ate a more processed diet. The African children had bacteria that digested fiber that were
completely lacking in the stools of the European children. The African children had far less pathogenic bacteria such as
Shigella and E. Coli in their stools. De Fillippo and colleagues propose that the food we eat and how it is raised shape
our gut microbial environment. In the case of the African children they suspect it allows them extract maximum energy from
a high fiber diet and protects them from inflammation and disease.
Erika Von Mutius, MD described a farm effect. She found that children raised on farms in Germany had lower rates
of allergy and asthma than children raised in urban areas. The stool of the rural children had a much wider variety of microorganisms
than the urban children. She proposes that we’re living too cleanly, that is, exposure in infancy to hay, livestock
and raw milk may protect children against allergy and asthma.
Jan-Hendrik Hehemann at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology revealed in his work that bacteria that live on seaweed
have contributed DNA to the gut bacteria of Japanese people. That is, the microorganisms on our food give our gut bacteria
the ability to digest it. His work may explain why I, with my predominantly Eastern European heritage, have no difficulty
digesting cabbage, a food which gives many people
gas. I even crave cabbage, or is that my gut bacteria talking?
it time to get back to the land, restore our soil and restore our health.
Bethany Klug DO is a physician for whom food is a doorway to personal, community and planetary health. Learn more about
how she helps people live a lifespan of health at www.HealthSpanKC. com Learn
more about her juice fast on the Health Span blog
at www.healthspankc.com, click on HealthSpan Blog at the bottom of the page.
Food Sensitivities...by Nancy Russell, M.D.
Thu, July 24, 2014 | link
“I used to have a chronic runny
nose, coughing, headaches, burning eyes and fatigue. Thinking it was allergies to something like dust or grass or trees, I
just took Benadryl, but didn’t get much relief. Then a holistic physician did a blood test on me and found out I had
food sensitivities. Avoiding dairy, sugar and wheat has changed my life; I rarely have symptoms unless I eat these foods more
that just occasionally.”
This is a typical story of a person with food sensitivities and may be the tip of the iceberg of other internal problems
with the digestion system. These intestinal abnormalities can affect many systems of the body.
The intestinal defense system is continuously under attack
from chronic stressors including: emotional issues, stress, infections (bacterial, viral, yeast), toxins (exogenous, endogenous),
lifestyle, poor diet and medications. Immune responses by the body to these stressors can cause a breakdown of the intestinal
lining or leaky gut. This leaky gut is also known as intestinal barrier distress and causes an ongoing cycle of inflammation.
This inflammation up-regulates the inflammatory cytokines which affects the nervous system, immune and endocrine systems.
This up-regulation can lead to: food sensitivities, fatigue, lethargy, malaise, anxiety, depression, irritable bowel syndrome,
headaches, asthma, arthritis and many other potential problems.
Testing is available to assess the intestinal barrier lining, food sensitivities, dysbiosis (intestinal imbalances)
and neurotransmitters. To find the many pieces of the puzzle, food sensitivity testing with intestinal barrier assessment
may be the place to start. Food sensitivities are different from food allergies.
Typical food allergies cause an immediate response, such as hives,
swelling of the throat and lungs with serious shortness of breath and even lead to a life threatening situation. These food
allergies are caused by the response of the immune system cells called immunoglobulin E (IgE) and need immediate medical attention
and treatment. These are the type of allergies that conventional allergy physicians diagnose with skin testing and treat by
strict avoidance long term.
Food sensitivities, also known as food intolerances, are very different and caused by the response of the immune system
cells called immunoglobulin G (IgG) and have a more delayed response, the reaction can be varied from a few minutes or as
long as 24 to 36 hours. The testing for IgG responses is done by alternative laboratories with blood samples and not usually
recognized by conventional allergy physicians. These delayed reactions can manifest symptoms as mentioned above and many more.
A few more symptoms include: gas and bloating, joint pain, ear infections, attention deficit disorder, memory loss, mental
fogginess, bed wetting, migraines, bladder infections, fluid retention, canker sores, nausea, eczema and psoriasis.
Blood and fecal testing helps identify
the degree and type of dysbiosis, quantifies IgG food sensitivities and effectively guides treatment options. Food elimination
nutritional programs based on this testing can reduce symptoms and increase positive outcomes in people by more than 25 percent
over people utilizing elimination diets alone. Food sensitivity testing is a good place to start in a comprehensive health
evaluation with holistic principles as a guide. I invite you to start on your path to optimal health.
Nancy Russell, M.D. has been a holistic Internal Medicine physician in the Kansas City northland for over 30 years at 5140
N. Antioch Road in Kansas City,
MO. Her phone number is 816-453-5545 and website is www.nancyrussellmd.com where you can get more information. Dr.
Russell is board certified in holistic medicine and is a member of the American Holistic Medical Association and a prior board member.
Mental Health: Are We Listening?...by Jude LaClaire, Ph.D.
Thu, July 24, 2014 | link
In the Native American Learning Story, Who Speaks for Wolf by Paula Underwood, one of the elders of the tribe spoke to the people about making a decision without listening to everyone, “To
live here requires more work than change would have made necessary.” The tribe, without realizing
it, moved to Wolf’s territory. They had to spend all their time defending themselves against wolf. They knew that if
they had listened to Wolf’s brother, they would have lived in harmony -- living a life of balance. They vowed, as a
tribe, never to make a decision without listening to everyone.
The lesson of this wonderful learning story is helpful
to those who want to provide good mental health care and those who receive it. Who and what should we be listening to that
we are not? Dr. Thomas Szasz who wrote many books about the myth of mental illness and the overemphasis on diagnosis and pharmacology
was often ignored, dismissed as too shrill or extreme. But more recently, more voices are being heard on this topic.
Whitaker in Anatomy
of an Epidemic writes convincingly
of the very serious problem created by our dependence on pharmacological intervention, often beginning with very young children.
Dr. Thomas Insel, National Institute of Mental Health Director, citing the lack of scientific validity of psychiatry’s
official diagnostic manual, (currently DSM V) stated that the “NIMH will be re-orienting its research away from DSM
Let’s think about the current approach. I, as a mental health professional, am asked to diagnose a person using
the criteria in the new DSM V and develop a treatment plan based on this diagnosis. It has been increasingly encouraged and
often, common practice, to suggest psychotropic drugs as a first line of treatment and intervention. Since there is little
scientific validity for the DSM V criteria we have an immediate problem. The basis of our assessment of a person’s needs
The trend towards recommending a pharmacological solution has been increasing since the creation of Thorazine in 1955
and exploded after the introduction of Prozac in 1988. “Better living through chemistry” became the motto of my
profession. Robert Whitaker tells us that as all other major diseases have gone “the number of mentally
ill children rose thirty-five fold. Mental illness is now the leading cause of disability in children…” Though
there is agreement that psychiatric drugs have helped people lead relatively normal lives, he continues: “During the
past two decades when prescribing psychiatric medication has exploded, the number of adults and children disabled by mental
illness has risen at a mind-boggling rate.” And he asks, “Could our drug-based paradigm of care, in some unforeseen
way, be fueling this modern-day plague?”
One excellent example of this trend is in the use of anti-depressants.
A product that was developed for short-term use (3-6 months or less) has morphed into long-term use for many people. These
drugs used short term, in partnership with good psychotherapy are an excellent combination. The fact is that many people have
been taking these drugs for decades, needing different drugs, stronger doses and they have not been in therapy. The result is many relapses
and the increase of treatment resistant depression often accompanied by immune deficiency illnesses and other chronic diseases.
‘helping relationship’ model pioneered by Carl Rogers encouraging ‘unconditional positive regard’,
assisting the client by listening, forming a positive trusting relationship and helping them find the wisdom within seems
to still be the bedrock of healthy change. I continue learning better ways to do this as I learn about the brain, the person
and our environment. Drugs are not typically the first thing to do or the best tool for long-term success.
it is time we listened to wolf’s brother as living in a drug dependent world is requiring more work than change would
have made necessary.
Jude LaClaire, Ph.D., LCPC, LCSW is a counselor, educator and author. For counseling appointments, seminars, training, speaking
engagements or information on Neurobehavioral Programs or Imago Couple therapy call 913-322-5622. For more
information about Jude LaClaire or the Kansas City Holistic Centre go to www.kcholistic.com email@example.com.
Faith: Secrets of Success...by Suzette Scholtes
Thu, July 24, 2014 | link
leaders of companies say the keys to success are passion for your work, a willingness to take risks and “follow
people also know how to access and trust their inner resources. What does that mean?
1. Find your connection to God, Goddess, love,
your visions and dreams.
2. Foster rewarding friendships.
3. Build intimate relationships based on trust, loyalty and honesty.
4. Let your work have meaning and value to you. This frees worry of what others
think of you.
5. Reflect often upon your self-worth and self-value.
6. Know you have power to create success.
7. Be responsible to your thoughts, feelings, and choices.
8. Keep it fun!
Read these points and you see success is a product
of your love and will. You begin to feel worthy and deserving of success.
You can say: I know I have value! I know
I have worth! Then your core belief is as solid as a rock. If you fail to feel worthy and deserving that rock crumbles to
Yet, a paradox, most people fear success. Why? As a business owner of The Yoga School for over 30 years this I know
well. The fears may be covert as some beliefs lock in the subconscious:
1. Fear of Power because of dysfunction of
past or ego.
2. Fear of freedom because of the covert need to manipulate or control.
3. Fear of too much responsibility.
To overcome these fears I remain mindful of procrastination, excuses,
games or entitlement. As well, watch out for feeling overwhelmed; and odd as it may sound, fear of being lonely if too successful.
The genuine fears, and all fear is real emotion, may feel like too much weight on your shoulders. No one wants that burden. A few ideas of how to handle genuine fears:
1. You don’t want to fail. It is a law of physics that when something new is created something is destroyed. That
is scary. You are moving into the unknown. Scary indeed!
2. True success will produce chaos. You may be away from family to work. With success
comes more love and caring so fear of loss grows. Fear of humiliation and rejection is real fear. As Shirley MacClaine wrote,
“You are out on a limb,” not knowing if it may fall or if it will support you.
3. When you succeed you are subject to judgments,
especially those in your industry. It does not feel good to be judged by anyone. Judgments build walls and that hurts. You
must remain true to yourself—pure faith.
the big question: “What if I am wrong?!! Look at what you have accomplished. You know and trust you are responsible.
You know you actualized your power. Accept it. When you know this you tame this genuine fear of success.
Roll! And now the secret of
success is unveiled: When your
most powerful choices are made the most consciously, success is unlimited and unstoppable. The only way I know to do that
is meditate; go within and follow your intuition, take those risks and LIVE your passion. You will find comfort in the love (the feminine) and the will (the
masculine). This gives birth to the NEW, which is your power. Love, will and choice give you faith in others and yourself.
To believe in yourself lights your path on every twist and turn!
In 2014, dream new dreams at The Yoga School of Therapeutics. Enjoy classic yoga with certified teachers.
Our yoga promises health and happiness whether 18 or 80. Be met with a smile and feel so much better in heart, mind and body.
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One of Two Things Will Happen...by Tamie Rising
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I love inspirational quotes. Look close and you find a gem hidden inside the words. Heed their insights, and a light is shown
to reveal the gem’s beauty.
“When you have come to the edge of all light
that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing one of two things will happen:
There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly” - Patrick Overton
Moving into the unknown can be very scary. It’s the unknown after all, something unfamiliar and not yet experienced. That’s
really all it is when you think about it. Yet moving into the unknown requires a faith bigger and bolder than fear and doubt
-- anaudacious faith. This faith is mustered from the depths of your soul and harnessed to take with you down the road to
the fresh and new.
When I left my job and started my business, I stepped boldly into
the unknown. I was gung-ho, enthusiastic and feeling unstoppable as my new adventure began. The first year on my own was a
brand new, unlived experience for me and it came with lots of unknown. As a business owner, all areas of business are my responsibility.
It was up to me and I felt alone and isolated. This feeling was unexpected; and it was dark and difficult for a time. I needed
to find that solid ground or learn to fly. I did.
Our faith doesn’t
usually grow during easy times. It grows when life purposely delivers a specifically designed curriculum to help us become
all we are meant to become. The syllabus feels so daunting that turning back seems like a much better and safer option than
moving forward. The truth is we get to choose if we take that curriculum on as our own. It can take guts and that’s
faith in disguise. When we say yes to what’s before us, we find solid ground and soar!
When we learn that we cannot fall, we develop a bottomless trust that we are held by a strong and powerful presence.
An inner confidence may say, “Hey, this is possible and I got this because after all, I am NOT alone even if I might
feel that way.” It’s like being in a dark room and unable to see anything or anyone. Then someone flips on the
switch and you see the room is filled with people all around you holding out their hands. When this happens, take their hands
and move forward in faith.
I am grateful for that time the light was dim because
I learned how to dig deep within myself and build a bigger faith in my dreams, my abilities and my Source of all. The unknown
stretched me, challenged me and built me. I am who I am today because of it. And I’m better at what I do because of
it. The same has been true for you, I’m sure.
Faith is a state of mind
that can be cultivated. We can consciously decide to have the unceasing faith that we can get through and do what we set out
to do. Faith, like yoga or meditation, is a practice. We cultivate and grow our faith by waking up every day and setting an
intention to live that day in faith of what’s possible.
not mean we have to know how to make real the possibility we hold for our self and our life. It’s also doesn’t mean we have to already
possess the means to the end. Faith is knowing we ARE the means to the end.
What does faith mean to you?
some other ways to think about faith:
is the propeller you can’t see under the water, gently moving you forward.
¨ Faith is trusting yourself and trusting life as you head down your path.
¨ Faith is believing the impossible is possible.
¨ Faith helps you take the
next step, even when you might feel some doubt.
¨ Faith is knowing in your bones the step we take leads you to where you want to go, even if you can’t see how.
¨ Faith means you trust and believe the how will be revealed.
¨ Faith is knowing that when I take a break
from writing this article, I’ll come back and find the words to finish it.
yours, my journey continues. When I don’t feel something solid to stand on, I’ve learned that in holding closely
to my faith I can fly, as we were all born to do!
In times of darkness, breathe deep, dig deep
and trust deep. Because one of two things will always happen…you will find something solid to stand on or you will be taught to
Tamie Rising is a business coach who helps conscious business owners make their mark. She is also a professional speaker who
is on a mission to empower individuals, leaders and teams to be more creative, happy, innovative and authentic contributors
within their families, businesses, communities and on the planet. Learn more about Tamie at www.tamierising.com or contact her at email@example.com.
Faith is Waiting...by Stephanie Forcier
As I sat down to write this article, my computer froze and crashed. Slightly frustrated, and somewhat inconvenienced,
I manually shut down my laptop. I pressed the power button and listened to the fan kick on as the system came back to life.
I watched the security log-in screen come up and…I got an error message. The log-in screen failed to initialize. Now,
frustration building, I pressed “okay” to clear the message and once again, shut down my computer. Annoyed, I
ejected the laptop battery and stared at it, thinking, “You better work this time, I have an article to write!”
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a few minutes of stewing over the precious minutes wasted, I heard a voice that caused me to chuckle. The voice said, “Have
faith!” In that instance, frustration and resistance left me. How wonderfully appropriate it was that the very topic
I was writing about would become a direct part of my experience. So, I decided to go grab a bite to eat, relax and center
myself. As I noticed calmness and peace wash over me, I knew that when I powered up my computer again, it would work. Moreover,
even if the computer did not come back on, I knew everything would work out. I knew another path would present itself. I pressed
the power button again, heard the fan whizz, and there appeared my log-in screen. I typed in my password and I was on my way.
this divine challenge was a seemingly small reminder to embrace faith, it definitely got my attention. Faith finds us at some
of the most vulnerable times of our lives. Yet, faith won’t take action on our behalf, speak for us or make decisions
for us. Faith waits patiently near until we are ready to allow it into our hearts. Faith allows us to grow.
what is faith? In my experience, faith can take many forms and work through many messengers, but in its pure state, faith
is formless. Regardless of the form faith takes or how a message is received, faith is a feeling of believing. Faith allows
us to believe that everything is going to work out. Faith supports us in taking the next step, even though we may not see
the outcome. When we align with faith, it activates something other than our logical mind, which is the reason we experience
what we might describe as miracles. Faith connects to a greater universal flow, and may be experienced on a deeply personal
level regardless of religion, background or upbringing. Faith is as unconditional as love, always present in every moment
no matter how messy things seem.
Faith serves as a foundation upon which we can navigate our lives. If we are experiencing stress, anxiety, fear, grief,
etc., it may seem like faith has left us. But, faith has not left us. Faith is right beneath our feet, an eternal foundation,
just waiting for the fog to clear. Faith is in our hearts the whole time, holding the road map that leads to peace. As we
move through life’s challenges, faith reveals itself to us. As we get out of our own way, quiet our minds and relax
into the flow, faith washes over us. As faith washes over us, we are able to find the words, to discover the direction and
to take the next step. Faith gives momentum to truth; and as truth is recognized, miracles unfold.
Keeping in alignment
with faith may be supported or challenged by others in our lives, the energy of the environments we frequent and how we choose
to care for ourselves. We may feel empowered when hearing someone’s story, or we may feel depressed. We might feel delighted
every time we visit a cherished friend, or stressed out every time we go to work. The stories change, the characters change,
environments change and we even change…yet faith remains.
Faith is, in its purity, a formless quality that continuously
whispers to our hearts. As our hearts hear faith, the forms and messengers to support our growth reveal themselves. Faith
is inspired as we align ourselves with proper self-care, with supportive people and harmonious environments. And, faith is
also inspired as we recognize lack of self-care, unsupportive people and disharmonious environments. Either way, faith is
there, standing by with your road map to peace. Either way, faith is waiting.
Stephanie Forcier is a Certified Teacher and Advanced Practitioner of Linda Howe’s Pathway Prayer Process to accessing
the Akashic Record with over a decade of experience. She is also a Certified Angel Practitioner. Stephanie actively
offers certification classes, events, workshops, personal sessions and facilitates Akashic Record Meet-up groups. For more
information: www.InnerWisdomEvolution.com 816-260-2438 or Facebook www.facebook.com/innerwisdomevolution.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
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continual transition. Most of the changes are small, daily shifts toward a new reality. Others are major life-changing events.
We all experience these
major and minor transitions which help us grow, experience and learn. These are opportunities to reinvent ourselves to our
choosing. We can accept change as an opportunity for growth or we can resist and fight against nature, making life more
difficult and less joyous.
experienced many of the major life transitions: childbirth, death of a parent, divorce, family illness, changing careers,
empty nest and more. Each is frightening, intense and sometimes painful. I usually scream and cry and feel the pain completely.
Then I start to heal and find that each calamity presents the opportunity to reach inside myself and find new strength —
and to recreate Who I Am.
beautiful issue of Evolving features articles
on life’s transitions. In her column this month, Jude LaClaire offers insight into the spiral of life and how we can
learn from transitions. Ashana, in her feature article, teaches us to take a leap and allow miracles
in our lives. And, Sara Koron explores the yin and yang of nature and how it relates to mid-life changes. This is truly a
encourage you to welcome change; to stop resisting the forces of nature and allow the waves of change to help create a new,
stronger, more resilient and open to love—You!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Freedom from Addictions
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Carl Jung said, “Every form of addiction
is bad, no matter whether the narcotic be alcohol or morphine or idealism.” When it comes to addictions, I don’t
believe the core problem is the particular addiction (whether it be cigarettes, alcohol, sugar, shopping, gambling or any
other addictive behavior); I believe the core problem is the nature of what causes a person to seek relief through an addictive
substance or behavior.
In my opinion, the drugs themselves aren't the true problem, but ill-fitted or weak solutions to a problem—an
attempt to cope. If we can learn to address the issues underneath the desire we can learn new, healthy coping skills.
I’ve found that addictive behaviors become non-issues when I feel well and whole. There isn’t a need to
cover up, medicate or cope with life; life itself is joy. Whenever I detect a potentially harmful habit
(and what truly is an addiction but a habit that becomes
consuming, compulsive, and at times uncontrollable, with usage that persists even in the face of extremely negative consequences), I question what is my motivation with this habit?
What do I get from it? Then I find a healthy replacement.
This month, noted author and psychic Almine shares a resourceful
article on addictions and the self-abandonment involved in these life issues. She explains how we lose
our energy, and thus our power, by indulging in addictive habits. She teaches us to harness our true power to fill the void
that addictions normally fill. It is a truly inspirational piece and I hope you gain a nugget of hope and knowing that we
all can be whole, powerful and addiction-free.
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This or Better...Harm to None
This or Better...Harm to None
by Suzette Scholtes
August 27, 2014
The phone rang early that September morning. It shook me out of my daily meditation. It was a call I had waited on for
a long time.
Mom died, Dad said. I felt relief. She endured Alzheimers for 10 years. The last stage is painful. I was praying at that
moment, God, take her home and end her suffering. Thy will be done. This or better, harm to none.
Why did you call me? I asked thinking of my elder siblings. He said, You are a writer. You dont do anything.
I was not offended. He was a cynic to the day he died. I sensed he knew I could handle it. I arrived at the family farm
20 minutes later. Together, we completed service plans at the funeral home. He didnt want to call the other six children in
the family. He said he didnt want to ruin their day. I had to beg him. Tears held back, I called my sisters and brothers around
the country with the news of our beloved mothers death.
He was her caregiver. I could see the pain in his eyes; that pain of no relief for 10 years, watching the degeneration
of someone you love. I said I lost my mom twice. After diagnosis in her 50s, she did not know any of us. My sis Jeanette and
I took her out for lunch and/or shopping. I did her hair, until the last stage when her only life force became a moan.
Dad had served as a marine. He navigated bomber planes over Japan in WWII. He was brilliant. He attended the University
of Chicago until he ran out of money. He joined his dad doing concrete and construction. He designed our rambling farmhouse
and built it brick by brick into a huge structure. He built the barns, the ponds, and a swimming pool. He had a temper like
Mark Twains. He would knock down lamps and bang spoons into the table. I heard Mark Twain threw all his shirts on the lawn
when he found one that had a missing button. These men held back lots of hurt and worry, stuffing emotions, as somehow they
believed tough guys are not allowed to feel.
Older now, I see how he opened doors for his children to create fulfilling lives. He wanted us to read. He wanted all his
five daughters to attend college and find careers so we would not be co-dependent upon a man. This is 1958 before the womens
movement. He read with passion. Books were all over the house. We were allowed to stay up late if we read. Of the eight children,
six of us graduated from college. We paid for it with part-time work and scholarships. He gave me a $20 bill and off I went.
I never questioned it. I just did it. He made us strong. My senior year I carried l8 hours and worked 35 hours at Macys. I
graduated with honors.
Years before his death he asked, So are you one of those woman libbers? He never liked women wearing pants. I show him
my subscription to MS Magazine. You need to marry. You need to settle down now," he said. And damn dont be a writer. How will
you pay your bills? Yet somehow he understood me. He sensed the undercurrent of my daily meditations: Dear God, heal us. Help
us. This or better, harm to none.
by Bhasweti Gewhas
August 7, 2014
In my work as a spiritual life coach and hypnotherapist, one of my clients, Susan (not her real name), brought me an important
lesson involving the significance of simplicity, joy of life and its powerful role in manifesting success.
She is a Reiki practitioner and has been working for many years in the field of holistic health. She has learned many
different healing modalities; but becoming financially successful as a holistic practitioner was a big struggle for her.
She understood the concept of success in the form of conventional norms: like regular flow of income, continuous growth,
new clients, prosperity, supportive friends and family, fame but after trying too hard for ten years she became frustrated.
She realized that she had difficulty receiving the wonderful gifts of the universe.
Susan tried to devote more time in marketing and promotional activities like demonstrating her healing work at different
holistic fairs, offering free workshops, advertising in new age magazines, developing a good looking website and asking for
referrals; but again, nothing worked for her financial success. She had very few clients and very little income; all her hard
work and sincere efforts resulted in very few positive responses.
She felt unworthy of success so she tried self-healing for some time and practiced affirmations regularly. But, she felt
defeated, confused and helpless and gave up hope. She was lost, feeling the universe was not supporting in her ventures. She
did not understand why the universe was not supporting her by providing a clear way to grow her spiritual practice and income.
She began to struggle with self-respect and low confidence. Eventually stress affected her more by causing chronic depression
and anxiety. She started to suffer with ulcer, heartburn and many other gastrointestinal problems. She started eating more
and gained a lot of weight, disrespecting herself even more as she became an emotional eater.
As her body and mind became out of control, it affected all her chakras adversely. It caused imbalances in her root and
feet chakras as they became ungrounded. Weak feet and root chakras are related to poor health, fear and manifestation problems.
During her state of confusion, she was stuck in the sufferings of past failures and become too engaged in anxieties about
her uncertain future she was never present in the moment. Opportunities to experience the joy and simplicity of life were
not available to her, because she was not able to understand that the root cause of her problems were within her own mind.
As she started doing hypnosis sessions with me, she became able to access her subconscious mind. She was directed to
connect with her spirit guides and angels. Guided by her higher masters she was able to understand the inner conflict. She
gradually realized that if she really wanted to experience a dream life then she had to change her inner feelingsher inherent
vibrations. Otherwise, positive changes were not going to happen. Soon, she realized that she had two options to choose from
she could remain fixed with the limited mindset of complaining and suffering for the lack of money, career, health happiness;
or could notice the simple moments that life was presenting. When she focused on lack, then all that she did not have in life
became the main point of her attraction. The law of Attraction brought her exactly the same kind of lack and poverty again
and again. Since the issues of lack of monetary success took all her attention, she was getting stuck in the past realities
of lack, sickness, failures, resentment, confusion; it was becoming a spiraling pattern of continuous misfortune for her.
At the same time she also had the option to choose a more holistic path of open ended goals of expansion and flexibility,
by bringing change, not in her outer world, but from inside first. She was advised by her spirit guides in our hypnosis sessions.
to change her focus from achieving monetary goals to something different, something easy and something more enjoyablelike
finding joy in simplicity of life, because then it would be easy for her from moment to moment to raise her vibration to something
The moment she brings trust into her mind things become easier for her to attract. Without being in the drivers seat,
she can focus on something joyful and then allow the universe to bring this to her in due course. There is no stressful struggling
associated in the process of manifestation. As she is practicing this aligning process with trust and gratitude, she is experiencing
joy in simple things and easy flow of synchronicity. Her mind rests in a high vibrational state of receiving. Recently she
has attracted a wonderful life partner, they are very happy with each other and he is eagerly sharing all her financial expenses
to give her opportunity for growth. The Universe presented her with a wonderful gift that was her first major key to trust
and become more open to the flow of abundance.
She was told by her spirit guides to go through all kinds of exposure to offer healing sessions and workshops, and keep
the focus on creating joy for self and others. Because joy will bring the high vibrational frequency that can eventually open
up the door to bring the prosperous flow of the universe in her life.
These healing sessions with Susan gave me the confirmation of the truth. It is very important for all of us to replace
our limited perspectives by opening our heart to higher guidance. The Universe is ready to offer us everything when we are
ready to receive in joy. In order to be in the receiving mode, we need to improve our vibrations by being grounded in the
present moment -- finding joy in simple things and feeling grateful. Changing our attitude from lack to joy helps us to find
the opportunity to feel the closeness with the Divine within. Feeling grateful for all that is joyful brings us closer to
the prosperous flow of the Universe. for true success. This present moment is the best time to create a life of joy!
Mindfulness for Everyday Peaceful Living
Mindfulness for Everyday Peaceful Living
by Martha Childers & Tracy Ochester
August 7, 2014
Much of our time is spent plugging away at routine tasks, barely noticing what we are doing or how we are feeling about
it. As a result, we tend to get stuck in our habits, neglecting to appreciate the moment and causing a disconnect from others
and ourselves. Flying on autopilot, life passes us by with little awareness. The cost of this mindlessness is a sense of dissatisfaction,
boredom, restlessness and maybe even feeling a little dead inside.
Fortunately we can break free of these habits through Mindfulness, which is a calm awareness of a gentle, sustained attention
to the present moment. It involves being fully conscious in the here and now while accepting, without judgment, the experiences,
thoughts, feelings and bodily sensations that arise. Mindfulness can be cultivated through practice and increases mental clarity,
compassion, acceptance, and emotional self-regulation leading toward improved life satisfaction and functioning. The practice
of Mindfulness helps us to be more aware of our emotions, choose our responses wisely, accept things that are outside of our
control, adjust to change, have more compassion for our own struggles and those of others. A psychotherapist trained in Mindfulness
can help you learn techniques and guide you in your practice.
Practicing Mindfulness can be as simple as being aware during the performance of daily tasks, such as teeth brushing, eating
meals or waiting in line. For example, feeling the sensations of the teeth and gums being cleaned, the suds foaming in the
mouth, and all the experiences that usually go unnoticed while brushing our teeth, can make us feel alive. While waiting in
line at the grocery store, stop, become present in the moment, relax, experience yourself and your environment. Time will
expand as you breathe slowly. Pull back, and wait your turn while seeing, feeling, hearing and smelling the space around you.
Connect with the checkout clerk; enjoy this unique persons presence and the fleeting interactions you will share together.
Lose yourself in the experience. Notice how you feel, and this will motivate you to repeat the experience next time you are
waiting in line. Each day, take a little extra time to pay attention to what you see, hear, feel, smell and taste during routine
activities. Resist multitasking, such as watching TV or listening to music while you perform your tasks. Instead, calmly observe
your physical sensations, thoughts and emotions without judging them.
An even more effective way to develop Mindfulness is to keep a regular practice of meditation. Choose a quiet space where
you are unlikely to be distracted or interrupted and sit comfortably, starting with short periods of only 10 or 15 minutes
at a time. Begin with just observing the breath as the object of meditation. When your mind wanders, gently bring it back
to the sensations of air entering and exiting your nostrils and the rise and fall of your chest and diaphragm. Over time you
can increase the length of your practice or schedule in several meditation sessions per day. Those new to meditation may find
it useful to enlist the help of a therapist or mentor who can guide them in their practice.
There are a number of documented health and cognitive benefits to cultivating Mindfulness. Research indicates it decreases
stress and worry while increasing working memory capacity, and sustained attention. Emotional regulation is also improved.
An ever-increasing supply of excellent resources for learning Mindfulness is available in bookstores, on the web and in your
community. Free apps are available that you can download to use to remind you to take a mindful moment as well as suggest
subjects of meditation. A Mindfulness informed therapist can provide you with more resources and help you clarify the path
that is best for you as a unique individual.