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Monday, November 23, 2009
Creating Tradition The
articles in Evolving this month focus on creating tradition. I believe traditions, like life, are cyclical. With the passage of generations
and transition of time, traditions change. And sometimes they’re abandoned, forgetting the warmth, comfort and familiarity
that comes from established tradition. When I was a child, traditions were relished
rituals in which I participated. I remember as a child going “hunting” on Christmas day with my dad, uncle and
cousins. I was the only girl—and was very proud. When I was older there was sledding at the park and Volksmarches with
Grandpa. Sister Mary, then in the military, would create custom cadences for us to chant.
Then when I established my own family I started new traditions
as well as incorporated cherished ones from my and the children’s father’s past. Then the kids grew up and moved
out. Somewhere along the years I forgot to start new traditions. New ones that invite elders, grown children as well as grandchildren
into the circle of love. So now I have the opportunity to remember favorite rituals of youth
as well as create new ones, based on current needs and values. The articles this
month offer an array of advice on the importance of ritual as well as ways to remember past traditions and incorporate new.
There are suggestions for possible traditions, including some for pets! And there’s also an article on finding a way
to celebrate even during periods of grief. I hope you enjoy the delightful selections this month. May you find peace in ritual
and your holidays be blessed.
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